I read an article somewhere that said it is actually much better for you to tell children that they worked hard on something than to tell them that they're smart.
It was one of those nuggets that I recognized with my head but didn't make it all the way to my heart. Until now…
It is better to be focused and trained - disciplined and persistent than
talented.
This famous poem really sums it up:
Press on
Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence.
Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent.
Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a
proverb.
Education alone will not; the world is full of educated derelicts.
Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.
--- Calvin Coolidge (30th President of the USA)
Back in 2001 (sigh, why does that sound soo long ago?) I got accepted into the high performance training camp for
racquetball hosted at the U.S. Olympic training facility in Colorado Springs.