I helped a woman I was coaching - who has in a single lifetime had more than seven separate men attempt to physically attack her - learn that she has to STOP focusing on being attacked. After the first near attack, not getting attacked is all she
thought about. Guess what? Oddly enough, the same person has also had like eight different guys propose marriage to her. (And no, she is not a supermodel & yes, I may teach the How to Get 8 Proposals Class someday!).
It was a seriously fun phone call for me to connect the dots and show her that she actually helped create BOTH of those circumstances by NOT wanting them.
She feels more confident and a lot safer now. A little badass actually! Hi R! (Note: focusing on being attacked won't make a man who doesn't attack women attack you - but it attracts to you the precise kind of man that would…)
You can look at it from a slightly different perspective - once you become a victim and get stuck in that energy, you give off victim and prey energy. Prey energy attracts predators. This is true in the animal
kingdom AND among people.
Me? I have torn BOTH of my Achilles tendons. After I tore the first Achilles tendon I lived in total fear that I would… Tear the second one! I cried almost with relief when I tore the second one. All me.
You get what you think about – and you get what you fear or dread even FASTER. If you're thinking, Gee, I hope it doesn't happen,
won't happen, can't happen, would be awful to happen - you are thinking about it. Stop it.
In Joy,