When you say “maybe” to children what
happens?
THEY BUG YOU ENDLESSLY. Same result. Whatever option you say “Maybe” to, energetically just hangs around and “bugs” you.
You say MAYBE to put something off or avoid “shutting the door” on
it.
Well, whenever you choose ANYTHING you are shutting the door to SOMETHING. Even choosing indecision costs you.
Next 24 Hour Practice Tool: Whatever you agree to for the next 24 hours ALSO say out loud what you must have just said NO to.
Why?
1) I want you to RECOGNIZE what you're trading. We are always making tradeoffs – you just usually don’t notice it. Maybe is trying to skip that exchange.
2) Knowing what you are saying NO to will help you hold your ground when people
challenge your decision. (Knowing what you DON’T want (your Hell NO!) gives you motivation.)
3) There is a price to pay for saying that No which you must be willing to pay. This is how you signal the Universe that you are serious about your yes - that is truly a HELL YES.
HELL YESes dump rocket fuel into the Law of Attraction!
4) My mentor Rich Schefren defines Hell YES as a 10 of 10 and Hell NO as 9 of 10 (Hint: Commitment!) When you don’t want to decide or admit this decision is a “6” you just say MAYBE. No. Such. Thing as HELL MAYBE.