Can I Expect “Bob” To Do Something Specific – Like Pay Back a Debt?
Better to expect your money situation to greatly improve (General Expectation).
Can I Expect Someone to Love Me?
Hell NO. (Sorry!)
But what if they promised you say? Still no. Free will was given to us all. The strongest love, the fairy tale love is not based on
ONE eternal promise, it is based on a new choice and a new commitment every day.
When you start “expecting” people to love you, your energy creeps into “entitled” and that energy is roommates with “taking people for granted.”
If you had left the house today not certain your mate would be there when you returned, HOW DIFFERENTLY WOULD YOU HAVE ACTED LAST NIGHT? THIS MORNING?
Do not assume love is owed. So many good things come when you don’t. So many bad things are invited in when you expect love like you own it.
Tanya, Don’t you Expect to Have a Family? To Be
Found by Your True Love?
Yes! And for me, having a mate and creating a family overflowing with love is a general expectation. It is not an expectation of a specific guy ("Bob") filling that
spot.
And yeah, I slip and screw this one up periodically! Sometimes I forget - get distracted by the next awesome "possibility" in front of me and start wanting a man to change. Don't do it!
If you catch yourself, release all expectations you put on them and let them show up however THEY choose. Next you look at what they are offering you and THEN choose. That honors free will and is self-loving.
(Hint: Men fear commitment because they value FREEDOM. This way of loving GIVES Freedom. Get it?)
I don't love you because I need you.
I need you because I love you.