An awesome & powerful German coach I love (Benedikt Dommes) just posted this on
FB:
“The greatest lie we tell ourselves is that we are NOT supposed to experience what we are currently experiencing. That this moment SHOULD BE DIFFERENT than it is showing up for us. That we should feel and behave differently or that other people should feel or behave the way we WANT THEM TO so that we can accept them (read: love them).” Emphasis & Parenthesis by
Tanya.
If this moment is EXACTLY what you are supposed to be getting and the Universe is trying to help you, then complaining, running, avoiding and denying the mess came FROM YOU, are all exactly what you DON’T want to do.
Tanya’s Spiritual Logic: If it’s not an accident, it HAS TO BE Part of the plan to help me.
The Pivotal Question: So, How is this HELPING me?
Ask that 6 word question when you LEAST want to ask it.
How is this divorce helping me?
How is this breakup helping me?
How is this layoff helping me?
How is this diagnosis helping me?
How is this insane Boss helping me?
To do the 18 words you’ll need to be willing to tell yourself the truth.
This is friendly
Universe.
This mess isn’t by accident, it’s by DESIGN.
So, how is this HELPING me?
Do you know how often people have to be FIRED out of jobs that
don’t serve them, so they are FORCED to move on and find happiness?
How long after the breakup before you cautiously admit to yourself, he wasn’t really that GOOD for me (Hint: Epic Good Moments plus Epic Bad Moments = BASICALLY NOT GOOD FOR YOU).
What if you could let go gently instead of needing your hands slapped?
Wouldn’t life be easier? Wouldn’t the Universe breathe a massive sigh of relief, if you became
OPEN to being shown you were wrong or missing something?