Soft Alpha (noun) Definition: An Alpha who does not immediately lead with her strength.
She treats it like a loaded gun and can be wary of drawing it in a fight. Often more relationship focused and concerned about causing division.
On a spectrum from average women to Super Alpha - I’m toward the far right. (And
trust me, there are PLENTY past me!) I need to be kind of far over, because I lead Alphas and must be stronger than all those I lead, to merit trust in the beginning.
Soft Alphas are more in the middle. People do not look at these women and immediately call them badasses. You may look in the mirror and
think, Me? I’m not a badass. Not all the time anyway.
Soft Alphas can withstand pressure other women cannot. They hold. They are my gentler sisters but have core of steel in them that comes forth in times of need!
Know this, Soft Alphas belong with us. In your moments of strength that surprise you and frighten those around you – you are Alpha and welcome here.
The best analogy I have for you is
from my own race. I’m black. Black folks are black and mixed folks are generally considered to be “black” by black folks. The majority of mixed folks identify more as “black” than white.
A mixed Alpha is a Soft Alpha. And any Alpha is Alpha.
You are wonderfully mixed and belong with Alphas who see you as beautiful and one of their own. Your moments of strength & fierceness are welcome here. You moments of fuzzy or soft are protected here (we are very protective group of fixers!). Welcome Gorgeous Little Sisters!
Are you a Soft Alpha? I’d love to talk to you because, frankly, I’m learning MORE about you. Alphas, I got you. Soft Alphas, I want to learn how to include you better. To make it safer for you, as you need initial safety more than Alphas do. (Don't worry, I intimidate Alphas too
sometimes!)
