Either Or folks (and yes, I was totally one of them…) think you
can’t have everything. There is a swap off, a barter and price (penalty?) you pay for your good.
I can either have the job I want or be a good mom.
I can
either follow my dreams or have a dependable income.
I can either be a good friend or have time for myself.
The most common three are
LOVE or MONEY, WORK or FAMILY, DREAM or REALITY.
F that. I have become a BOTH AND person.
Wealthy people are more BOTH AND than Either Or.
Grow my business or spend time with my family? Wealth demands a way show up so I can do BOTH.
Oftentimes, if I catch myself in a moment of struggle, it’s because I’m "Either-Or’ing". I was just Either-Or’ing about an Alpha Mate Candidate who recently appeared. I couldn’t get the Universe to answer me about him, because the answer WASN’T Do Either A or B, it was a blend of
BOTH!
Can you have it all? Of course you can. The people out there preaching you can’t, aren’t ALPHAS. They see limit and lack and focus on fear and “how” and “what if…”. They secretly think it’s greedy to desire and work for a life where you have what you want in MORE than one area.