Phase 3: ACTING ON THE TRUTH.
Scary! So many Alphas that CAN see the truth and tell themselves – yep, that’s how it is… but then can’t take the next right step. To leave that job, end that relationship, stop driving by the damn donut place and talk to the creditor you are avoiding. Acting consistent with the truth you KNOW
means you BELIEVE IT and it is a huge clue to character.
Circumstances do not make the man, they only REVEAL him to HIMSELF --- Epictetus, Greek Philosopher 100 AD
To believe in something and not live it, is dishonest
----Mahatma Gandhi
Phase 4: HOLDING YOUR GROUND AGAINST YOUR OWN HEAD.
Crazily Hard. No one knows this, but if you run the gauntlet of Phases 1-3 you are in a for a nasty treat! A full-frontal assault from your Ego who is royally miffed about all this “truthing.”
Truth is a synonym for love, so…that is panic time in Ego world. It will come at you from every angle:
- Look what you lost - lack
- You spoke too late - timing
- You said too much - judgment
- You shouldn’t have listened to whoever said tell the truth (i.e. Alpha Women Coach)
- You were doing just fine and look at this unnecessary mess -
fatigue
- You’ll never get back what you just threw away by doing that - fear
In short, it will do everything it can to put you into 3 corners of the Alpha Square of Doom – Resenting, Resisting and Regretting.
Ready for the solution?
Do NOT fight your head. It’s like trying to convince a drunk they are NOT drunk. The more you fight the more THEY fight. I want you to agree
and keep repeating:
I have a choice and I choose truth.
If truth brings me trouble, so be it.