We Did It As Little Girls…

 

When we were little, we fantasized all the time. We’d imagine what it would be like to be “grown-up. “ We imagined what would it be like to be a Princess or to have a pony. If you were me, you imagined becoming a great scientist one day.

 

Exercising your imagination, it’s a skill that we have let atrophy.

And we need to bring it back!

 

What in the world does fantasizing & imagining have to do with boosting our self-love??

It has NO IMMEDIATE value and is done for enjoyment of the feelings it generates.

Read that again.

 

Anything you do JUST BECAUSE it FEELS good to you in the moment and not to serve someone else or “produce” something is VERY self-loving.

 

We don’t take time to fantasize because it feels foolish (because it’s not producing anything!) and because we don’t “have time.”

 

In love stories that you read or watch, aren’t you charmed by the “foolish“ things the man does to win her heart?

 

What foolish things are you willing to do to win your own heart?

 

Time is your only currency, and you really ought to be spending more of it on yourself.

 

(Write that puppy down, it’s profound!)

 

It is not time doing “nothing” if you are sitting imagining or fantasizing.

 

It exercises a little unused part of your brain and also enhances your ability to be creative on demand in your work.

 

If you’d just make a little “white space,” unstructured time, you’d be surprised at the messages God sends to reach you.

 

While you were doing rigorous or focused tasks, you are demanding that your mind and heart go in a specific direction.

 

For the Universe to send you a message at these moments, it literally would have to do something it doesn’t do, violate your free will!

 

This is why prayer, meditation, active exercise and walks work really well for hearing your own intuition. Since you are in essence, “shut down” at that moment, shooting you a message is not an “interruption”.

 

Fantasize. Day dream. It’s LOVING to yourself!

 

Think things that feel good. Your brain can’t actually tell the difference between you imagining them and DOING them!

 

Boost Your Self Love and Fantasize!