Love Challenges? Use Your STOP and Go! for Love Part 3💘

Published: Wed, 10/19/22

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Want More Love?

Use Your Stop and Go! for Love

STOP in the Name of Love

If you have a love relationship that’s not working, pay attention.

First, this is week 3 of using your STOP and Go! Are you really doing it or are you skimming this because it feels too “simple”?

Alpha. You are addicted to complications and struggle.

If you feel resistance to doing the simple things I coach, question that!

Much like Pilates where they may only have you lift your leg just a few inches- trust me - 20 reps later - it’s working!

Time to pick!

#3What is my STOP & Go! for Love💘 Know Your Stop and Go

Remember, whatever you are going to STOP should bring your love situation relief or protection.

I have checked in with myself three different times now

and found I do not have something I need to STOP for Love.

That means that I’ve done a really good job of ending those things before now. I don’t have anything running (that I’m aware of) that’s harming or blocking love for me, so nothing needs to be ended.

I literally coach love, so I was surprised & then super proud to realize this!

Here’s three examples that you might want to look at stopping for love:

STOP expecting this person will leave you.
STOP beating yourself up more than 48 hours after a mistake. Let it go!
STOP making excuses for someone disappointing you on a clear agreement.

Fearful expectations harm you and their trust in you.
Endlessly replaying your mistakes erodes your confidence.

And making excuses for their clear boundary violation disgusts you with yourself, damaging your self-love.

What can you STOP that will bring relief or stop harming love for you?

My Go! for Love is more Celebrating!

It’s a pretty big deal to discover I don’t have anything actively blocking love for me. (Earlier in my life I had soo many blocks Lego asked me to spokesmodel!

)

Celebration is a fun part of the energy of Love.

I’m celebrating how deeply loved I feel

WITHOUT having to force anyone else to change!

Translation: I feel loved without ME needing to

CONTROL or SACRIFICE to get it. Huge!

The Go! of celebrating more is such a good thing!

I’d fallen out of the habit somewhere.

The energy of celebration is like taking joy and gratitude,

and duct taping them together.

Those are vibrations you want to HAVE,

so you ATTRACT back more of the same!

With celebration as my Go! I can attract goodies and opportunities on anything! Not just in Love.

So what is your Go!?

What will you START doing to Give Yourself Better Love?

P.S. Don’t forget the rules!

We STOP something first.
What we STOP must end, prevent or reduce something that HARMS.
Our STOP brings relief.
We Go! second.
What we decide to hit Go! on, should GIVE A GOOD.
Our Go! brings pride and opportunities.

Show up Alphas. Stop your STOP and pick your Go!

#2 What is my STOP & Go! for Love💘 Know Your Stop and Go

Helping High Achievers Transform Stressful Marriages

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 22-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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