If you are still doing your life the old fashioned way, i.e., identifying with all of your many struggles and focusing on your pride in triumphing over all of your drama and tragedyā¦ Youāre never gonna get to the recovery portion of Resilience that we discussed last week.
To make this your own quality,
you need to shift your focus from staying āabandonedā at sea, to looking forward to setting foot on your beach.
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Iām inviting you to choose to make the word ResilientĀ
YOUR word this week.
And make sure you look for ways to use itĀ
beyond the traditional āwork or corporate successā adjective.
Can you find ways to be Resilient around your teenagers demands?
Can you spot your Resilience in food preparation,
grocery shop or menu planning?
Can you claim the title of Resilience around your workout habits?
You can absolutely and definitely apply Resilience to stepping OUT of struggle in your relationships.
And heck yeah, when you power through that thing at work or donāt kill that employee (whose behavior cries entitlement so loud, you cover your ears)ā¦call it what it is! Youā¦displaying your Resilience!
Competent is another success word that is also used more for men.Ā
Personally, Iām more likely to be called Resilient than competent.Ā
No matter how I look at it, my brain has the habit of sticking the word āmerelyā in front of competent. 
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Practice this week finding one moment in each day that you can catch your self in Resilience or CHOOSE RESILIENCY.
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Itās fun and it will make a difference in how the next week goes for you. Promise.
In Joy,Ā
It sounds fun to me.Ā 
