Slow Down to Speed Up: Slow Down Your Speaking Alpha!👄

Published: Wed, 09/27/23

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Slow Down Your Speaking Alpha!

You talk too fast. Sorry. Not sorry.

Stop rushing your words. Stop raising your voice.

All the emphasis is on HOW you are speaking,

instead of WHAT you are saying.

Slow Down to Speed Up: Slow Down Your Speaking Alpha!👄

Queens Don’t Talk Fast

Marilyn Monroe.

Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis.

Joan of Arc (that’s a guess).

Oprah.

Because (this is just like with walking…) everyone will wait to hear them.

Rushed speech says the speaker is LESS important than the LISTENER.

That was huge.

Let’s do a replay:

Rushed speech says the speaker is LESS important than the LISTENER.

Look at these pairs of people and you’ll instantly know which one would talk quickly and which one could speak slowly:

Student & Teacher

Child & Mother

Motorist & Police Officer

Defendant & Judge

There is a clear POWER dynamic in how fast you feel you must speak.

Same thing with your tone & volume.

An easy way to be perceived as having greater influence AND support your self worth is to slow down your speech, control your tone and speak deliberately.

If you are near my age you remember the old commercials for an investment broker…

When E.F. Hutton talks…

people listen.

It’s a perfect demonstration that we all stop and listen carefully to powerful or attractive people.

Slow Down Your Sex, Spending, Eating,

Walking, Grooming AND Speaking.

You will experience more joy, more pleasure, more respect,

self-love and power when you Slow Down.

This is easy to do and easy not to go. What will YOU do Alpha?

In Joy,

P.S. I was raised in the North, in a Western suburb of Chicago. We talk… Fast! After I made my way down to law school at the University of Georgia, I made a startling discovery.

I was a young lawyer, in court and on trial alone for maybe the 3rd time in my career. You soo want everything to go well!

Just like on TV, we have court reporters that sit in the courtroom during trial, taking down every word we say, either on a specialized typewriter or (old school) spoken into a mask that records it.

Picture my embarrassment when a court reporter interrupts my TRIAL, and says (imagine this said in a thick southern accent):

“Ms. Stewart, Ms. Stewart, you are just gonna have to

learn to speak a little slower if you want a transcript

of this court case here today”.

I died. Luckily, my heart restarted, and I apologized to the court reporter. Three years of law school in Georgia had slowed down my speech, but apparently not enough for somebody to transcribe it accurately when I was excited and talking fast!

After that, I learned how to vary the speed of what I was saying, so I could control the judge’s attention.

Just like a master story teller,

I learned the value of slowing down key details

and power of “the pregnant pause”,

and let me tell you…this stuff works

Helping High Achievers Transform Stressful Marriages

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 25-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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