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Published: Wed, 12/27/23
Let's Review Your Past Year & Invitation! Â
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 We all start to get excited about now. Christmas is done.
We are
ready to turn our optimistic eyes to next year.
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And maybe you got a sale on your favorite planners?Â
Alpha love planners, journals, notepads
and post itâs!
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FYI: Resolutions donât work. Period.
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Iâve already coached you toÂ
get your single-word focus for next year.Â
(Mine is Mastery!)
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In order to have a different (&
better) year next year,Â
you have to do a Post Mortem on THIS year.
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Letâs See How We Did, Shall We?Â
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There are lots of ways to do this on your
own,Â
intuitively or follow a teacherâs guided questions.
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My favorite end of year review process takes awhile!Â
Itâs totally worth it.
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Iâm created a more express year end focus for you below.
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Answer in writing were at all
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It activates different level of reflection inside you.
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Love:
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Who were the top 1-3 supportive people this year?Â
They were the difference between things working
and NOT working.
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Will they still be in your life for next year? If not, why not?Â
And how will you reward their giving?
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List their name and relationship to you.
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Who exhausted you this
year?
 Will they still be in your life for next year?Â
If so, why? And how will you balance their taking.
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List their name and relationship to you.
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How many of the âfightsâ you had this year in your relationship were
 about things you have been fighting over forever?Â
A few, some, many or almost all.
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Wealth:
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What was your
best investment this year? Why?
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Where did you throw good money after bad? Why?
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What was
the easiest and happiest way you brought in money this year? Can you expand or repeat this?
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Health:
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Rate your physical health this year on scale of 1-10.
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Rate your emotional health (peace or happiness)
 this year on a scale of 1-10.
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What did you do this year to
improve your health?
 Did you continue doing that or stop?
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Are you willing to make consistent & deep sleep a
priority?Â
How will you make that happen?
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Mission:
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How well did you hear and follow your intuition (still small voice) this year? What helped? What got in the
way?
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How many hours did you create to rest yourself this year, without feeling guilty or being forced to pause (illness)?
(There are 8,760 hours in a year. How
many were just for YOU?)
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What âgot in your wayâ and distracted you this year? Was it the same thing as last year? How will you make next year distraction free?
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Go Deeper:
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What 1-3 choices were you most proud of this year?
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What 1-3 choices caused you most of your problems?
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What relationship, business deal or promise do you, in hindsight, see you should never have made? What are you doing to exit that situation?
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Thinking of this past year, if you could only
give yourself one piece of advice to improve your next year and one warning to change your outcomes⌠What would those be? What is your advice to you?Â
Your warning?
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Even doing this short reflection will give you truths that will change your life as you look to create your next year.
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If you cringed answering, pay close attention to that! Itâs an area begging for improvement.
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I am sitting on a porch facing the sea in Bali at the tail end of a
rain.Â
We are entering the Wet Season here (theyâve only got two!).
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If enough of you raise your hand, I can build something that will help you for a cost
your budget can hold.
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So pop onto the form below and let me know in 1 minute:Â
1) Check box on how you are strugglingÂ
2) Check box on the range you can invest low to high (example: $199).
List your true upper limit to invest in yourself with me.Â
Itâs not a promise, but I need to know how much âmeâ you want in your life.
This will let me see whether I might have 175 alphas that could come together at $199. Or 45 at $350. 12 @ $1,997. Or 3 at 5,000.
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If the numbers work out, then I will spitball some ideasÂ
and post them in January for your fine-tuning, input and consideration.
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I have something in my head right now, so you probably want to stick your name and email on it. Thatâs it! Keeping it
simple.
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2nd FYI: This is an example of doing what is called a âsoft launchâ for interest to see if there is a happy intersection between what you all need and what I can create for you happily.
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Many of you read me faithfully, and there really havenât been any opportunities for you to buy access to me. This is me trying to build you time with me without the private, 6 figure investment. Letâs see what we see!
P.S. I am pretty excited to hear from you. Raise your hand. 200 Alphas even investing $200 is a $40K investment and I can make something pretty awesome around that!  Happy New Year Ladies! Off to dinner in Bali :-)Let me know what you need and the best investment you can swing for yourself and I'll build us something fabulous. Take the 1 min survey here: https://forms.gle/o9mgbRJjdULyUka38
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 After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned
to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.
She is a 25-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual
Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.Â
Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.Â
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Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.