Alphas are Cluttered! Cluttered Finances and Schedules 🗓️🚯

Published: Wed, 11/08/23

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Cluttered Finances & Schedules!

An Alpha’s schedules & finances too often resemble your purse,

shoe or self-help book “collection.”

Clutter is not just busy.

It’s not just stressed finances or a financial crisis.
This is just the same way it’s more than just having too many objects.

It’s an inability to STOP being busy

and STOP having too much pulling on your finances.

Alphas are Cluttered! Cluttered Finances and Schedules 🗓️🚯

Stressed Schedules & Frantic Finances

It’s time to admit these things have gone beyond a busy “season.”

You get six hours of sleep (or less) constantly. You don’t have time to shave your legs, watch a Hallmark movie, take that new yoga class, or start that book (reading OR writing it!).

You are ALL things, to ALL people and need an intervention.

You are told endlessly that you should do less, make time for self-care, take a break.

But you cannot.

Because Clutter is in your schedule.

And Clutter cannot be removed by force

without triggering MORE trauma.

In the week leading up to my packing for the big trip to Bali and handling my things arriving late by container ship, my schedule was busy but not Cluttered.

How so I know?

Because without forcing it, I changed my plans daily. I stayed fluid and enjoyed WAY more time with my family than I thought I would.

Taking things off my list didn’t require force or result in trauma.

Not Clutter.

This was NOT true in my past. I would’ve really suffered from the changes. Alphas are fairly rigid with planning for this reason.

How’s your money?

If you are experiencing money stress more than twice a year,

every year (and I know of Alphas where it’s monthly or even weekly), you have Clutter in your finances.

Remember last week I told you that I purchased extra luggage? To fly the max of 7 suitcases. I had to pay $800 extra to buy 4 bags plus the 3 included at my flyer status.

Know what?

I CUT what I took. I need less. I took less. I finished at 6 suitcases to live from. That last 50 lbs (23Kgs)? I said No.

I also said No to the $200 USD I paid for that bag.

My finances are no longer Cluttered. I didn’t need to “save that $200 dollars”, “protect my packing plan” or “squeeze every drop out of available cargo” to feel safe anymore.

I let go the non-refundable $200 and was happy to want less and bring LESS.

Remember, Clutter is going to come from some wound or fear. It will be the manifestation of trauma that you have not yet healed.

It may be a specific financial trauma that happened to you, or it may be another trauma that makes you feel unsafe below a certain amount of money (very common to need a “target bank balance”)!

If you have a reading these trainings, and you are suffering with Clutter, you will need to get help.

Do NOT beat yourself up. That will make your Clutter worse (more trauma).

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Do NOT try to force the Clutter in your schedules

and money habits out. Be gentle with yourself Little One.

In Joy,

P.S. It’s 1:24 am (my times are screwed up). My commitment to getting you these trainings, means that I am dictating this from the Gold & Platinum lounge in Doha, in the Middle East, on my crazy long layover.

Just under 15 hrs Dallas, Texas to Doha. Just under 15 hour layover and then 10 hour flight to Bali. Landing 11pm

PPS: I am considering creating a class on Clutter if there is enough interest.

So, if this is really speaking to you, hit REPLY, and raise your hand. Describe your Clutter/s, so I can accurately target

whatever I do with the future.

Helping High Achievers Transform Stressful Marriages

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 25-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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