Alphas are Cluttered! Cluttered Relationships 👭👫🚯

Published: Wed, 11/15/23

Photo of Tanya, Coach for Alpha Women Entrepreneurs

One of the Biggest Sources of Clutter

are Our Relationships.

We were born into trauma,

and that’s where we learn

how to “manage” our relationships.

That means our relationship “tools” come from bad models that are primarily designed to protect us from further harm, prevent loss of what we have, and try to get what we need emotionally.

Our painful histories reinforce our habit of

keeping relationships that no longer serve us… Clutter.

Alphas are Cluttered! Cluttered Relationships 👭👫🚯

Tanya’s Definition of Clutter

Clutter is driven by prior trauma making you care for,

maintain or be incapable of releasing things

(which objectively do not serve you)

to provide yourself some form of emotional protection.

What relationships do I have that I know, right now, do not serve me?

Go past whether you serve them, and whether you are EXPECTED to keep this relationship.

You know.

You know Alpha.

For now, just identify the relationships that do not serve you (they harm, they take, they limit you, they don’t see you, or hear you).

It’s OK if it’s your husband, mother, or child. Just tell yourself the truth.

Truth doesn’t mean you are a bad mother or need a divorce tomorrow.

Who are you keeping in your life, at a cost to your peace, your dreams and your safety?

Those relationships are Clutter.

Remember, Beautiful girl, that which is born from fear,

NEEDS FEAR to continue.

If it is still there, you are FEEDING IT.

Get help to let these go and grow yourself so you can transform those whom cannot release.

This is the Art of Self Rescue.

P.S. When you make healthy open spaces, the better can arrive.

Yes, releasing people has short term pain, but you will release BOTH of you to attract the best for EACH of you.

Helping High Achievers Transform Stressful Marriages

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 25-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

Find Even More on the Resources page of the website: www.FearlessFocusCoaching.com/Resources

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