Ok. I can see that. But here’s the HAPPY side of flexible:
- Lowers Stress from Rigid Expectations
- Agile Alphas Adapt to New Opportunities Quickly (Triple AAA! I’m keeping that!)
- Things that BEND don’t BREAK
- Open to the Universe Being in Control
Can you see where inserting more flexibility into your life and business serve you BETTER?
Innovation and flexibility are best friends too. And, nothing impresses customers more that a businesswoman who knows WHEN to be flexible and when to hold the damn line.
I want you to put some flexibility in your life – try these:
The next time something goes “wrong” gamify it (yes, that’s a real word). Assume that a higher power, who knows just a touch more than you, did whatever THAT was in order to HELP YOU. Then determine your next course with the idea that you are being HELPED rather than THWARTED.
Offer someone you love a CHOICE where you would normally just TELL them what to do. Alphas LOVE to direct! Give someone you care about an option on something: dinner, a trip, sex, a purchase…something. Note: If you never do this, they may react with surprise or suspicion. Ignore it!
Ask for what you want and be “flexible” about what arrives.
These little exercises will feel funny, that’s good. That’s you flexing your underused “flexibility” muscles! The amazing things that come into over lives are usually UNPLANNED and require flexibility. So practice
now!
