Working hard can actually be a really BAD SIGN.

Why? Because Alphas are WIRED TO STRUGGLE. It means that we lean toward it. We don't see the easier path. We miss the well lit, slightly open door.

We are EXPECTING drama, trauma, challenges and f*ckery (Yes, I invented that word and you may use it with my permission!)

Here is what I often see when you are working TOO hard:

1) You are using the wrong TOOLS for your goal 

2) You don't have a PROCESS

3) You aren't CLEAR on what you REALLY want

4) You aren't VALUING yourself enough and/or

5) You are trying to "EARN" love/praise somewhere

You know my favorite two coaching words by now- STOP IT.

Yes, that's scary. What if your world falls apart because you decided to relax a little?!?

Solution: Find the right TOOLS and PROCESSES to get what you want more EASILY. You need a PLAN different from you already HAVE.