#1 Learn to Accept ALL the Rewards Given To You
Let's talk about accepting rewards. So many Alphas deflect the rewards that come to them. They think they're doing this out of humility, but this false sense of modesty is actually a bad omen for continued future success.
When you refuse your rewards, you are shutting down someone else's giving. When you shut down someone else's giving - you also block their ability to receive. Giving and receiving are a closed loop.
Now, can you can see why deflecting an offered reward hurts the other person (or organization) and demonstrates your own blocks about
receiving?
When you cannot receive praise, compliments and kudos
you will also struggle to receive love, trust and grace.
#2 Learn to Celebrate Your Rewards
(3 good resources for you on links below)
So few people actually know how to celebrate an accomplishment. They
reach their goal and brush off praise to rush right back to work. When you do this, you do not refuel. When you do not refuel, you burn out.
This is a bad pattern you need to break.
Celebrating is one way to ask for more MORE good things. Do you want more love, fun and money? Ok. Celebrate what you are already being given!
Find a way to celebrate! I teach we need to be celebrating your beginnings and
not just your ends. That takes away your all excuses. They have a closing ceremony at the Olympics for a reason!
If you push yourself to your limits and then "get there", your body and mind need to know their efforts were recognized. If you dive right into climbing the next mountain, you are literally building up internal resentment that will show up as
self-sabotage.