Super Power Trait: Planning

Skill Set: The ability to take abstract things make them concrete, put them on a schedule and then crack ALL the whips to make it happen in real life. 

Weakness: Your high planning skills tend to make you rigid. The better you are at planning, the more you like to use your “planning skills”.  That makes you less available for spontaneity and things that are not controlled by you.

Superpower planning makes you naturally suspicious of all things that are not planned. 

Big fat giant problem with that?

Last I checked God and the Universe didn’t have a board meeting, invite you and SHARE their plans! Almost all the amazing things that have happened in your life, happened kind of out of the blue right? 

If you are resistant to things happening outside of your own control - you are asking for only what YOU can personally deliver to yourself and excluding yourself from Grace, abundance, serendipity and miracles.

Write this down: Miracles are never planned.

Whenever you see the word "control" or feel yourself needing to control something pause.  Alphas use the term planning when often we MEAN control. "I want to plan for that..." is "I want to control that..."

Ask yourself this question-

What do I fear will happen, if I am not in control of this?

Control is always about fear. You’re afraid that if you don’t make sure you get, you won’t get. Yes, I know that was your experience. But do you want your history to dictate your future?

You can be a healthy planner. Healthy planners plan what needs to be planned and let the rest go.  When you are in balance, you don't exert control to try to plan things beyond a certain point.

Alphas are so good at planning, that they cannot detect the BALANCE point alone. Basically, your set point for “what I should be planning" is way too high. You need an Alpha coach to help you start seeing the points where you have left planning and entered controlling. Or you can just listen to the complaints of those around you!