Everybody knows someone who is stubborn or God help you, maybe it’s you!
What’s really funny, is when people openly ADMIT they’re stubborn! As if this is not a terrible thing to be. It should be looked at like admitting you are a liar or a thief.
Here’s what stubborn really means: you would rather be right than happy, loved, healthy or
wealthy.
Stubborn people will take and keep their own counsel, even when there is someone with experience to know better, willing to advise them. Like Frank Sintra, you insist that you have to do it YOUR WAY.
If you’re
overweight, you’re stubborn. You know what you need to do and you won’t do it. If you don’t have enough money, you’re stubborn. There’s about 1000 different ways for you to improve your financial situation but you are not executing on them.
Note: before your head tries to get involved in any excuses and defenses around this, I did
NOT say that those thousand ways were EASY. I did NOT say they were COMFORTABLE. I did NOT say they don't involve big effort, investment and even downright pain.
The same thing holds true with getting your health in order. In fact, here is a truth about the process to
get ANYTHING in order: Anything that’s out of order will require the application of extra energy to the chaos to straighten it out.
Stubborn people won't put in the extra and won't accept guidance to improve their
process.