In relationships, you are always being called to the next higher version of yourself. To reach this next version,
you need to uplevel 'aka' learn the next new lesson.
Your ego will resist this because a) it’s new and therefore unknown and unsafe and b) growth is about love and egos are fueled by fear.
If you got that, you should now WANT to be made
wrong.
I've often begun a coaching call with these words:
"There is something you THINK you are RIGHT about,
that you are WRONG about and
you need to be WILLING to be made wrong
so you can move the block you don't know you have
to get what you really want."
(Read that again, it's that important)