When you are doing WELL in the Love Corner here is what you can do:
1) Compassion. Hold space for a person you love while they hit THEIR lesson, get triggered and misbehave WITHOUT you running or punishing them and Commitment - DONE WHILE simultaneously continuing to do your OWN lessons.
2) Forbearance. Not insist you are right, even when you truly ARE CORRECT, if that insistence causes more disharmony than not (i.e., you'd rather be Happy than Right)
3) Truth. Rigorous with yourself and forgiving with others. You never look on truth and ignore, minimize or "not" see it. You act, even when it will hurt you or another and before you "count the cost" of acting.
4) Help. You ask for it. You receive it. You allow it. You offer it less (Alphas are wired to the masculine and overgive to control things). You learn how important it is that others feel they ARE WELCOME to help you and that you VALUE their help. Let someone else feel like a Badass once in awhile Alpha.
5) Peacefulness. You stop struggling for everything and noticing that the things that you really want are coming more easily with less effort. That epiphany opens up your life to feeling peaceful for the first time.
These new and stronger traits will enhance your love for you and will bring or deepen the love you are receiving from others. Remember the secret to life from last week? How you feel about love in your life BEFORE it arrives will determine if or how it does.
When you feel the 1-5 consistently, epic love will find you like it did me.
