Money is Like a Man - It Should Be Attracted, Not Chased
I’m hearing you are excited to work on money. First, I want you to go back and review Law #1 Remove. Remember, for Alphas and my foundation coaching, we first go after what’s BLOCKING you before you try to “speed up”.
Alphas will love this week’s focus. It’s meaty, so settle in and read!
Amplify that Which Attracts: Become WHAT Money Wants
Law #2 – Amplify that Which Attracts
Now that we stopped doing some of the dumb stuff (that which repels your Money). Let’s become what Money likes!
Please re-read that. I did not say just DO what Money likes. I said BECOME what Money likes. That means below the surface, deep in you vs. on a To-Do List.
MONEY TASK: BECOME WHAT MONEY WANTS
Back to dating because it’s the easiest teacher. Go to ANY gym and you’ll find some women who are fit because that is WHO they are now choosing to become and you’ll find a billion more women “getting in shape” to earn some attention/love/approval (even from themselves!).
That’s becoming vs. doing. Authentic vs. engineered.
Amplify your Authentic.
Men in demand are usually fit and are naturally more attracted to women who are similar. Which one are you? Are you “working out” to amplify and “buy” your opportunity OR grooming yourself to become the kind of person life WANTS to give a hook up to?
Do you ‘diet’ or are you choosing to live healthier?
Example: I can work really hard (any Alpha can). I can also work with crazy passion toward my purpose. That may be hard work but it “smells” different to Money. Passion attracts Money.
Ok, here is the big secret and I’ve taught you this before - I am the Indirect Goals Coach. If whatever “good thing” you are doing, is done to get money – that’s not becoming. (Double entendre & play on words, the word “becoming” also MEANS attractive!)
There IS a difference between women who put on a powerful & sexy outfit for THEMSELVES vs. to drag in the attention of a man. The first outfit will ALSO draw male attention but bonus, he won’t feel hunted.
Money doesn’t like to feel hunted, dragged, trapped or tricked either!
Money (& men) are like cats. Chase it, hound it, obsess over it & they run. Get busy doing what YOU want to do, what turns YOU on and do MORE OF IT and curiosity gets all 3 of them! They will come and stay because THEY want to play with you at that level.
Golden Question: Am I becoming an awesome person that successful people naturally love? (Or am I “trying to do the right things, in the right order to get X"?)
What Do I Need to Do to Amplify My Attraction?
1. All Alphas have a Superpower, play with yours WEEKLY
2. Learn to Notice & Turn Up Your Magnet
Do you know your Superpowers? One of my big ones is I’m a Teacher. I can teach almost anything. I need to be teaching to stay at a high, happy energy level.
Another one I have is building. Furniture, companies, relationships, marketing…doesn’t matter. I love to build. When I keep myself connected into these high value gifts, I GLOW. I am magnetic to my own good.
Commit to dipping yourself at least weekly in one of YOUR Superpowers (which is love energy by the way!).
Common mistake? Be careful that you use your Superpower where it is WANTED and not just where it is NEEDED. Teacher vs. Dictator. Money always flows away from dictators in the end.
Second, practice turning up your magnet but NEVER TO GET MONEY. That’s that direct pursuit thing again chica! Use it to get smiles or attention from strangers or a happy reaction from a pet.
Step 1- Notice where your glow/vibe/mood is. Step 2- Then imagine turning up a dial and direct that amplified good feeling toward whoever/whatever you like.
I don’t know why, but I love playing with this in the grocery store. Last time I did it in a U.S. Costco, I got the compliments from both the entrance and exit greeters and a man followed me into the parking lot!
I did not SPEAK to anyone or flirt with anyone. I turned up my heart and beamed it out. If you can do this in a grocery store, you can do it before a sales presentation and with a client to feel golden to them.
Common mistake? Do not do ANYTHING to force, cause, speed up an outcome! That is PUSHING not attracting. Attract by becoming better “bait.”
I’ll say it again, you want Money to come catch you, not for you to run it down like a lion with an antelope! That’s tiring.
Amplify What Attracts Money.
Are You Attracting or Pushing at Money?
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P.S. Poor people push. Wealthy people attract. That’s why it looks “unfair”. Attracting IS easier. Change your mindset on this. You have probably been doing this the harder way. Everyone has something attractive –
and guess what, it brings love OUT of you, which attracts love (money) INTO you.
P.S.S. Many of the things I “left” or “gave away” back home are being attracted back to me. You recall I’ve always had a stray cat to feed, well…my Australian kitty showed up! Welcome Home Kitty!
We attracted the kitty vs. chased it. There was a fox in the area, so we had to act quickly. No name yet and first purr last night! :-)
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Tanya Stewart is "The Alpha Woman Coach" and began coaching strong women as a Divorce lawyer in her own high conflict law firm 20 years ago. She understands how Alpha women are wired and using her Master’s level Metaphysics background and Advanced Clinical Certification in Hypnotherapy, she brings rapid change to people she works with.
She is a speaker, published author and Mensa member whose coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor. She can teach you to separate struggle from success.
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