[Alphas] The Priority Series: Goals & Bitches v.2 of 4

Published: Wed, 07/10/19

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Fiercer Focus - Snow White or The Evil Queen?

We are talking about The Priority Series: The 4 Super Powers of a Bitch.

Notice if the title or word triggers you. Bitch has long been a word used to degrade and control women. Let's analyze the good qualities of these women. Last week we saw that bitches don't martyr themselves.

That alone is a GOOD THING.

This week, we'll see that our bitchier sisters know how to Focus!

What Do YOU Want? And Are You Getting It?

B.I.T.C.H. Super Power #2: No Distraction.

She never loses sight of what she wants and where she's going. She will never get distracted by somebody else's shit. NO Distraction.

You've heard "Clarity is Power". It is. The trick is to get and STAY CLEAR. Stay in YOUR lane. Do you know what it takes to DO that? Try on this list of adjectives:

Stubborn
Laser
Inflexible
Selfish
Tunnel Vision
Demanding
Impatient

Stubborn is what you are called when I don't want what you are focused on. Dedicated is what you are called when I do!

No mogul, no leader, no change-maker is FLEXIBLE with their WHAT, only on their HOW. To hold these rigid lines, you are accused of being selfish, anal, demanding and...well...if you are a girl...Bitchy.

It takes work and will and focus to clear away everyone else's concerns and identify your own. It takes a second set of that work and will and focus to then hold YOUR desire as your high focus.

Your desires will be assaulted, assailed and affronted by others seeking to co-opt your energy into their plans. How well you can hold the course you set, will determine your satisfaction in life.

Bitches Prioritize Their Goals - Do You?

Tithe Your Goals

At its most basic, tithing is the investing of your FIRST 10% in something you deem of high value. Are your goals getting your FIRST 10% or your LAST 10% right now??

The biggest switch you can make THIS week to prioritize your goals is to make sure you give from your first fruits, not the bruised ones you have at the bottom of your bag after everyone else has picked.

A woman viewed as bitchy is always advancing and protecting and funding her agenda first. You don't need to steal or cheat but you should model this priority.

Anything you give priority to, the Universe sits up and pays attention to it also. That is as true for other folk's drama as it is for finally writing that book.

Bitches focus on what is important to them and use all available resources to reach their goal.

Get B.I.T.C.H.Y. (Beautiful Intelligent Tactical Clear Happy YOU)

and Stop Distracting Yourself.

In Joy,

P.S. Let me know what this is bringing up for you! I couldn't/wouldn't have taught this years ago. I'm enough of a B.I.T.C.H. now that I can. :-) Can you separate out these good traits and apply them more in your life? Or are you stuck on what the world has taught you (just keep putting everyone else first, you'll be fine)?

BE a B.I.T.C.H.

Beautiful Intelligent Tactical Clear Happy

Tanya Stewart is "The Alpha Woman Coach" and began coaching strong women as a Divorce lawyer in her own high conflict law firm 20 years ago. She understands how Alpha women are wired and using her Master’s level Metaphysics background and Advanced Clinical Certification in Hypnotherapy, she brings rapid change to people she works with.

She is a speaker, published author and Mensa member whose coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor. She can teach you to separate struggle from success.

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