Why Bitches Succeed Succeed More Than We WISH They Would...
Welcome to The Priority Series: The 4 Super Powers of a Bitch
I’ll teach
you why Bitches succeed more than we wish they would...
When someone gives you the look, or even the words, “stop being such a B.I.T.C.H.” - what are they REALLY saying??
Stop
Prioritizing all of your stuff over mine! Come do what I want, how I want it, when I want it. I’m expecting you to make sure I am okay without delay!
What makes a bitch’s
super powers worthy of an Alpha? We’ll talk about that all this month. I want to teach you 4 ways a Bitch is better, so you can take those bits for your own.
And in the end, I’ll teach you that you want to BE a B.I.T.C.H.
Beautiful Intelligent Tactical Clear Happy
(Tell them your Alpha Coach may write the book on B.I.T.C.H. TM)
Did you Miss Last Month's 4 Counter-Intuitive Life Changers? Catch Up Here.
When Is It YOUR Turn to Feel Happy?
B.I.T.C.H. Super Power #1: No Martyring.
She never plays the game that she’s only "temporarily" putting someone else’s feelings ahead of her own. She just doesn’t DO that. Homey don’t play that. NO martyring.
You know the old
phrase, you can only manage what you measure? How often, strike that, when have you EVER sat and measured how other people are treating you??? (Yes, I have asked you to do this before, do it again right now!)
Here’s how to own the
truth that YOU'VE set yourself too low on the scale. Take a piece of paper and write down the names of the five people who matter the most to you in the world. On the left-hand side of the column give yourself a score for how YOU show up for them, from 1 to 10, where 10 is epic.
On the other side of the
column give them a score for how they consistently show up for YOU (be careful of averaging their behavior, 5’s and 10’s average to 7.5, which sounds good but those 5’s SUCK).
If their numbers are significantly higher than yours, welcome to your life as a martyr Alpha. Welcome to the truth!
Your Feelings SHOULD Matter Most
You’ll learn that bitches
actually make a lot of right choices. The catch is that they’re using the wrong motivation for those choices. If you’ve been following my teachings, you know that the Universe responds more to your motivation, then to your actions.
The world says
prioritizing your feelings so YOU are happy is per se bitchy and that is not true. Most actions are neither per se right or wrong. When you to prioritize yourself, out of the motivation of self-love - then life will work not just to your good, but to the good of everyone around you.
Broken, tired, empty, frustrated, lonely you is NOT HELPING.
Your feelings tell you how in alignment with your inner self and Source you are (that alignment controls the speed of your manifesting good things). When you down grade your feelings to ensure someone else’s, you set yourself up to create MORE things you feel bad about and SLOW DOWN good things arriving.
Your feelings ARE your point of attraction Alpha. They are CRITICAL.
You fulfilled/you
protected/you loved becomes a FULL pitcher that can bless many people.
Bitches fill their pitchers just for THEMSELVES, you will fill your pitcher for yourself AND therefore others.
Get B.I.T.C.H.Y. (Beautiful Intelligent Tactical Clear Happy YOU)
and Stop Martyring Yourself.
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P.S. Please be soo especially careful if you are an Alpha Mom. When you constantly subjugate how you feel, you teach your children VERY bad things. 1) Women’s feelings don’t matter 2) A woman SHOULD VOLUNTARILY PLACE her feelings behind everyone elses (or she’s a bitch) 3) Daughter Alphas learn to question their worth and either become prey or difficult/defiant and 4) Sons of Alphas learn their needs ALWAYS trump any woman’s and call that LOVE – all of that is
terrible and part of why the world is decaying at the rate it is right now.
P.P.S. Happy Birthday to My Family! My husband, 7/3, Twin Nieces 7/4, My Birthday is shared with My Mother in Law, 7/6, My Amazing StepMom, 7/13, My New Twin Daughter & Son (always wanted twins!), 7/18, Stepsister I call Sparkles 7/31. 5 in Australia and 4 in U.S.
Honorable July Mention to my brand new Grandniece born June 28th, Leilani :-) She's perfect! Welcome baby Alpha!
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Tanya Stewart is "The Alpha Woman Coach" and began coaching strong women as a Divorce lawyer in her own high conflict law firm 20 years ago. She understands how Alpha women are wired and using her Master’s level Metaphysics background and Advanced Clinical Certification in Hypnotherapy, she brings rapid change to people she works with.
She is a speaker, published author and Mensa member whose coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor. She can teach you to separate struggle from success.
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