[Alphas] Dislike the B Word? Read On & My Invite :-)

Published: Fri, 08/02/19

Photo of Tanya, Coach for Alpha Women Entrepreneurs

Embracing Discomfort is a Super Power!

The word b*!@h. Yep, still a little hard to type it. I'm getting more relaxed because my head is translating it at B.I.T.C.H. using my new definition.

Beautiful Intelligent Clear Tactical Happy

----------

I've heard a lot from you on the Priority Series & the B Word!

While exploring priority, I made a discovery. Call it a "break through".

Before you can make yourself a priority you must be willing to BREAK SOMETHING.

You will need to break a habit, break a heart, break out of a mood, break open your purse - something will need to be opened with a bit of force!

Why? By doing the same thing over and over (promoting others, demoting yourself) you created a pattern for your universe. Repeated thoughts become beliefs, those become expectations and those start limiting your reality.

So, break with comfort and break the association life has taught you for the word "bitch". Here are a few Alphas that are doing it...

Excellent post! Such a wonderful lesson I've learned over the years. Just yesterday a victim asked me to rescue her with a loan. I said I understood but no. That felt empowering!

Love, L

Oh Tanya - this is so POWERFUL - thank you so very much! Much to ponder, even though much I know... Just have to train this muscle to say NO - so it becomes stronger...Helping where I can is second nature by now - hard to see others hurting or in pain, even though it's THEIR pain... (I chose Quan Ying as my symbol...!) But there's compassion without self-obliteration... Discernment is the key! Thank you for your wisdom!
With love,
J

I love you and everything You have to say! Leader Queen bitch bee♥️! You teach us well—the best way in! Could have used this info tonight! Next time! And I will let you know too!

And of course, I LOVED "Queen Bitch Bee". Does 'that' woman sound focused or distractible? Prioritized or gotten around to? A master of self-care or a door mat? Anxious or confident? Disrespected or valued? Exactly.

I am Beautiful. I am Intelligent. I am Tactical. I am Clear. I am Happy. Are YOU?

Own Your Alpha, Get Clear, Confident and Cherished

Here is an Alpha who, like many women, detests the word "bitch", that means you are using the old meaning abusers gave it.

Hi Tanya,

The word BITCH makes my skin crawl. I think it's a derogatory term men use against us and I am going to work on getting people to think about the impact is has, especially for women and especially when we use it against each other.

Take care,

Here’s what I told her:

Thank you for writing. It was bravely done and respectful.

Certainly if you've been with me for awhile, you know who I am and what I stand for. I understand your feeling.

I 100% agree that the current definition of the word is very derogatory.

Many feel that way. I aim to take some real estate back. Words only mean what we say they mean and I want to adjust this meaning.

Beautiful Intelligent Tactical Clear Happy is my new meaning.

What if the world and more women changed how they look at themselves and went for these 5 attributes? What if you could laugh that those who would use the word for your harm, taking it on these NEW terms.

No weapon formed against me shall prosper is what we are taught. That includes this word for me. If God asks me to help even a handful of women find a better meaning and dis-empower this word, I'll do it, even though I may have to swim upstream a bit!

It is the same with the N word and how I explain to those who ask me why some blacks will use it. I believe they took it over to neutralize it's power. It is used mostly by men with men in affection and it does not give offense to those using it's "changed" meaning.

Thank you very much for writing. If you want to push your barriers around this, let me know, and I'll find a way to help. If not, that's okay to.

Love to you,

Tanya (highlight emphasis supplied)

I aim to challenge a word & world given to disempower Alphas. I feel empowered AF.

Let me Help YOU. Guaranteed.

7+ Hours of LIVE Coaching with Tanya +

8 Weeks Online Instruction +

Private Facebook Group - 2 Full Courses

$597 (not ~~$1,194)~~ & 3 Pay Available

Get B.I.T.C.H.Y. - I'll Teach You to be

Beautiful Intelligent Tactical Clear Happy YOU

and Help You Shortcut to Clarity & Confidence

In Joy,

P.S. Waiting for something? Deadline next Wed. Aug. 7th You like to wait to til the last minute when it's for YOU. Don't do that. Learn to burn your bridges in this post and get yourself in now, so you CAN'T RUN FROM YOUR GOOD/DISCOMFORT ANYMORE.

1st 10 Alphas Get Both Courses for $597 w/LIVE Coaching

Be B.I.T.C.H.Y. - The LIVE Online Class for Alpha Women AND

The Alpha Success Course (8 wk Online Course)

Want the Results? Then Want the Methods

See What You Get Here

Beautiful Intelligent Tactical Clear Happy

Bring the Men!

P.P.S. One of the men I've coached stepped forward immediately. If 2 or 3 other men want this, I'll create a version for men. IF ANY ALPHA JOINS WITH HER MAN - I'll knock off $100 AND throw in some private coaching for each partner as a reward. Still Waiting for something...?

Get Clear. Confident. Valued HERE

Tanya Stewart is "The Alpha Woman Coach" and began coaching strong women as a Divorce lawyer in her own high conflict law firm 20 years ago. She understands how Alpha women are wired and using her Master’s level Metaphysics background and Advanced Clinical Certification in Hypnotherapy, she brings rapid change to people she works with.

She is a speaker, published author and Mensa member whose coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor. She can teach you to separate struggle from success.

ALL My videos are always on my Vimeo channel HERE

Find Even More on the Resources page of the website: www.FearlessFocusCoaching.com/Resources