“Remove, correct or punish” those that fail to meet expectations or requirements. That is something that Alphas need to do better in their businesses. Too often your first consideration is how the transgressor will feel or how it will affect the employee versus how it is actually and continually affecting YOU!

We really suffer over how other people treat us. We want them to treat us well, but we don’t require it. Or we require them to treat us well, but we neither expect it nor punish it when we are abused. And through it all? We treat them like gold.

Bitches judge RESULTS and not INTENTIONS. The world paints a Pollyanna picture and wants everyone to be judged on their intentions. That country doesn’t MEAN to bully other countries and kill all the women and burn all the trees – yeah, but they DO.

Bad husbands don’t MEAN to get drunk and yell and scream and not support you with the kids and spend too much money – yeah, but he DOES.

You don’t MEAN to eat too much sugar, get too little sleep, and not use that expensive gym membership – yeah, but you DO. 

Bitches don’t let people off the hook because they’re focused on the actual results. They give feedback, correction and rewards based upon the actual result.

If you take the, “aww but, they didn’t mean to” filter off the people in your life who matter to you, how are they actually doing?

Get bitchy! Start living your life based upon the results that others are giving you. By the way, here’s why you’re not doing that.

1. because you are fairly certain that no one will give you the results they promise and that you need. That’s your fear of lack and low self-worth saying you don’t deserve those results.
2. you don’t want to be held accountable to the Results Standard. You want to keep being able to coast with your intentions (note: this desire would always be a subconscious one with Alphas.)

You cannot demand other’s results, if you do not demand your OWN results. There are fewer resentments in the Land of Results

than the World of Intentions…

Start in the mirror and ask yourself:

"Where am I letting myself off the hook?

Where am I AFRAID I'm NOT worthy to demand royal treatment?

Where am I avoiding the results others promise and that I am due?"

Bitches presume their own worthiness to receive whatever they want. They waste no time resenting, they ACT.