#3 Give Affection Without Waiting
How do you do this?
Slap us on the butt. Wink at us. Quick hug for no reason. Notice our underwear. Reach out and stroke our hair or leg on the couch.
Want to know the BIG ONES????
>>>Place a soft kiss on our forehead or top of our head.
Don't even need WORDS with that one it's soo good.
>>>Hug us from behind please!
Three flavors on this one - The Cherishing, which is a slow tug and caressing hold, The Cutie and The Claiming (yes, I made those names up but they WORK don't they?!).
The Cutie - tickle me! Pull me into a hug and give me a tickle or quick squeeze. This one is light and funny.
The Claiming - grab me and PULL me into your arms, your chest to my back. Hold me TIGHT.
You may not realize the reason that last one works because men are left out of the loop on young babies (unfairly I think). Babies need to be held TIGHTLY or "swaddled" to feel safe and secure.
If a baby is in distress, you wrap their blanket around them in a little cocoon of love. Your woman still needs and responds to that!
Hug us HARD. FIERCELY.
Again, do this well and you don't even need words. If you do add words, go with "I don't say enough, but thank you for sticking with me" or "I need you". And yes, "I love you" & "You smell good" works awesome too.
Alphas, make sure you are circulating these trainings, so they get into the hands of other Alphas and men, when we are talking directly to them.
