The 4 Secrets of Forgiving #3: Forgive Where It's Hardest To Do It

Published: Wed, 01/20/21

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The 4 Secrets of Forgiving #3:
Forgive Where It’s HARDEST To Do It

Why should we forgive the WORST things that happened to us??

Follow the next bit carefully. Line by line.

It can change your life.

1- Forgiveness removes resentment.

2- Resentment is suppressed anger and disappointment that resists what happened.

3- Suppressed anger brings disease and justifies fear based CONTROL and attracts MORE reasons to STAY angry.

4- Suppressed disappointment causes depression and destroys your

self-worth.

Very serious stuff.

Soo...we need to:

A- Release resentment ->

B- by using forgiveness ->

C- to end our relationship killing “control” habits AND

D- increase our self-worth ->

E- so we can receive MORE of what we really want.

(Hint: That’s exactly what I help you do in the Art of Self Rescue.

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The 4 Secrets of Forgiving #3: Forgive Where It's Hardest

THAT’S why we NEED to forgive the worst stuff as soon as we can.

It’s doing the DEEPEST damage to us.

Wherever you LEAST want to forgive is mired in 'life choking' resentment that is still hurting YOU, not the idiot.

It’s you continuing to keep alive the things you do NOT want to feel again. And dedicating your life to AVOIDING pain instead of creating happiness

That ends now. Forgive it.

In Joy,

P.S. Next week: It Takes Practice (Start Small)

How do you handle forgiving your worst thing ever?

Decide you are going to make that a priority NOW.
And start small next week...

Helping High Achievers Transform Stressful Marriages

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 22-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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