The 4 Secrets of Forgiving #2: It's For YOU, Not "Them"

Published: Wed, 01/13/21

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The 4 Secrets of Forgiving #2:
Forgiveness is for YOU, Not "Them."

As long as you don’t forgive (and you need to) you will be tied to whatever happened to you. Forgiveness is about reclaiming your energy and your power so that you can use BOTH to improve your own life.

Forgiveness is not "what you did was OK", "you didn't hurt me" or "I'll forget what happened".

Forgiveness is not done by the weak.

It is the weak who cannot forgive and hold a grudge.

Forgiveness is only done by the strong.

Forgiveness removes you from the control of the other person who "did you wrong."

The 4 Secrets of Forgiving #2: It's For You, Not "Them"

Have you ever talked to someone about how their ex-husband or ex-wife "did them wrong?"

You listen to the WHOLE story and then you ask when did they get divorced? They respond about eight years ago!

They are still stuck in the pain that happened nearly a decade ago.

Do not let this be you.

Forgiveness cleans up your side of the emotional trauma street.

Don’t wait. The harder it is to forgive, the more likely you need to do it.

In Joy,

P.S. You forgive so you can STOP playing the sad song of what happened to you in your life, in head, in your heart and therefore STOP recreating the same things in your CURRENT life. There is NO WAY forward into your future if your hands are full of yesterday's junk.

Helping High Achievers Transform Stressful Marriages

After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 22-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

Her coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor.

Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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