Money: Is it Met or Made? 💲

Published: Wed, 06/02/21

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Money: Is it Met or Made?

There is a lot of confusion on these big issues: Money, Marriage, Motivation and Mission.

The question you are to ask and I will answer this month – is whether each is Met or Made?

Meaning…is it something that you arrive at, are gifted, discover or rendezvous with OR is it something you need to effort and work for, put your hands in the dirt and dig toward?

Get this wrong and you set yourself up either to NOT reach your goal or make it WAAAY harder to get and hold.

Let’s begin with MONEY!

MONEY IS...MET!

You’ve been taught that money is MADE. That it requires hard work and effort.

That is only partially true. Let me explain.

Money has 2 stages. First it is Met, then it is Made.

Money- Stage 1

The initial opportunity of money, usually an idea, is Met. The execution and follow-through of money, is Made.

Unfortunately, people are taught ONLY that it is Made, so they spend all of their time “efforting“ to create more money.

Alphas especially believe pushing harder is the key. It is not.

The initial opportunity, the idea, the “yellow brick road” so to speak, is Met.

It’s All in Your Head...

Whenever we speak this month about something being Met, be concerned about your thoughts and beliefs and feelings.

This explains the famous quote, “You do not get what you want, you get what you are.” How you “are” determines what you can attract to yourself and in essence “meet“.

Long story short? Poor people should be concerned SECONDARILY with their willingness to work hard and PRIMARILY with tackling their unattractive thoughts, beliefs and doubts ABOUT money.

Clean up feelings about wealthy people and what you deserve.

Once you put that stage FIRST, an opportunity for money is can be Met.

After you meet the opportunity, then you have to do the work. That is 2nd Stage and the “Made” part.

Watch Out For These...

Never bitch about rich people.

(It keeps you from being able to "meet" a money opportunity to make you rich).

Along the same vein, never assume all very wealthy people did something “wrong or evil“ to obtain their wealth.

Many of them, had their thoughts and beliefs in order and simply “met“ a money opportunity and ran with it.

To the outsider, that can look “too easy” which we equate with “suspicious”.

What I Do..

I am prepared to work hard once I receive a Divine Idea. I had to learn NOT to immediately throw myself into hard work on Tanya‘s head’s ideas. Lol.

If the Money idea is Met...(Meaning I attracted it and it is in resonance with my positive thoughts and beliefs AND has a kind of epiphany quality to it)...I am IN.

THEN I work it.

What the Wealthy Know...

The world wrongly taught average and poor folks that money is first about effort (Made). We are told work enough and you’ll GET rich.

Not true! The wealthy were not taught that.

The wealthy correctly teach their children attractive thoughts and expectations, so they rendezvous with more money opportunities. It’s natural. That’s their advantage. Stage 1 is facilitated from birth. So, the rich DO get richer.

If you didn’t get that as your childhood foundation, reform your thoughts and get it NOW.

The Order Matters!

Money, to start, is Met. Get yourself in order so you attract the idea, nurture an inspiration, spot a need or have “that” conversation.

THEN roll up your sleeves.

Do it in that order.

Should you work while you wait? Of course! Starving or struggling REPELS good money opportunities. That’s one reason why the poor tend to stay poor.

It is not entirely because they refuse to work. Often at some point they worked really hard and they didn’t get anywhere. So now they believe that hard work alone won’t do it.

They are right! America or any other country is FULL of people who work very hard and have little wealth.

Money is first MET through attracting it’s ideas.

Make yourself attractive so you receive something WORTH putting your effort into.

In Joy,

P.S. This is why wealthy people say making money is EASY. Priming yourself to receive the money idea IS easy, especially if you’ve been doing it a long time.

Once you have enough wealth, your ONLY job is to receive the money idea. You then hire out and delegate the “efforting” parts.

See it? Sweet right? :-)

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After her 2011 divorce, Tanya set out to learn WHY soo many marriages fail. She used what she learned to save her 2nd marriage and found her calling to Save YOURS too.

She is a 22-year Divorce Lawyer, Founder of a High-Conflict Divorce Firm, Author of 'The Smart Guide to Life After Divorce', Mensa Member, Advanced Clinically Certified in Hypnotherapy, Metaphysics PhD Candidate, Spiritual Teacher, Speaker & Life Coach.

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Her greatest credential is finally separating Struggle from Success in Life & Marriage.

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